Jason & Lane
A chronicle of our lives together
A chronicle of our lives together
Dec 11th
Yesterday, we celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary! We each got the other a gift. I gave Lane a wedding photo album, full of photos from our marriage ceremony and professional photos we had taken afterwards. I created it on my Mac using iPhoto. Lane gave me a really nice men’s bracelet that matches my wedding ring. It has carbon fiber throughout the middle of it. We saw it at Zales while we were last in Salt Lake City and I commented on how much I loved that it matches my ring. Well, she remembered and went back and got it. She’s so sweet and thoughtful!
We didn’t have it in our budget to do much else, but decided to go eat dinner at a local restaurant here in Cedar City. We chose a mexican restaurant called Mi Pueblo. We both thought it was good, but not noteworthy.
I love my wife very much and am so glad to have been married to her for the past year! I look forward to many more!
Oct 28th
Today I woke up to the ground covered with snow. I love the snow! It’s so white and pure, and seems to hide all of the filth everywhere you look. It gives me a warm, comforting feeling.
Oct 19th
We went to the doctor today and found out that we are having a baby girl! Yeah! Little pink dresses and bows! We even had a name all picked out for a girl just in case, Mireya. Isn’t that beautiful? We wanted a name that was unique, so she wasn’t just one of three girls in her class with the same name.
When Jason heard that we were having a girl, he bought the domain name for her, www.mireyaruesch.com. He bought it from his iPhone, before we even left the doctor’s office.
We are going to make a blog out of that website for Mireya to see when she’s older and for family and friends to stay updated on her progress. Check it out.
Jul 14th
Holy cow! We are going to have a baby! We are pretty positive since Lane took two digital pregnancy tests. The due date is March 20, 2010. We couldn’t possibly be more excited at the prospect of being parents. This is something we both knew we wanted in our lives. What could be more amazing and rewarding than being a parent? We have no idea what trials and difficult decisions we will face, but we’re ready to find out.
We know this will be a difficult pregnancy because of Lane’s Factor V Leiden (a blood clotting disorder.) If her placenta or cord develops blood clots, we could lose the baby. Lane is going to be on Lovenox, a blood thinner, throughout the pregnancy to hopefully avoid any complications. She is not looking forward to the daily injection, but it’s better than having a miscarriage. Hopefully, the only outcome of this pregnancy will be a beautiful baby. Now we just can’t wait to find out if we’re having a boy or a girl!
Jun 1st
We finally moved into our new house! We have been working so hard to get it built before our lease was up at our apartment. It took a million phone calls, several trips to Cedar City and a lot of patience, but we got there. We never imagined how hard it would be to build a house. Everyone told us it would test our marriage, but luckily we pretty much agreed on everything. The things we didn’t agree on, we compromised. In the end, all of the effort was completely worth it! We might be biased, but we think it ended up beautiful.
Thank you to all of our family that helped us with wiring the speakers and with the move itself.
Dec 11th
We tied the knot yesterday! We decided to go ahead and just get married. We had a private ceremony at the Salt Lake County Court House. We are so happy and we can’t wait to spend the rest of our lives together!
Nov 22nd
We went on a 5 day trip to San Diego, California. Neither of us had been there before. We went because Jason’s job flew him out to attend a meeting. We decided to make a trip out of it.
We left Salt Lake Saturday morning with our winter coats on and arrived in San Diego that afternoon to people wearing sun dresses and shorts. It was such a change to see palm trees and so much water! One of the first things we noticed were all of the birds of paradise. They were everywhere.
We rented a hotel room at the Vagabond Inn (weird name, we know.) The hotel was located in Point Loma, really close to the beaches. The first thing we did, of course, was find something to eat. We checked out a local cafe called Point Break. Great food!
Saturday night we went to find a beach nearby at Sunset Cliffs. We ended up finding one, but it wasn’t what we were expecting. It was beautiful, but instead of having lots of sand, it had lots of rocks. Surfers and people with their dogs sure were loving it though. We spent plenty of time taking in the view and searching for sea shells. We then sat and enjoyed the sunset. So romantic!
We slept in Sunday morning. When we awoke, we ate breakfast and searched out a beach that we knew would have sand. We ended up going to a very popular spot along Mission Beach. We spent a few hours playing in the surf and marveling at the fact that we were actually on vacation! What a blessing. We didn’t have any sunscreen, so we couldn’t stay there long. When our cheeks started getting pink, it was time to go.
We went back to the hotel, got cleaned up, and went out for a romantic candlelight dinner at a local Italian restaurant.
After we ate dinner, we wanted some dessert. We decided to follow Steve and Shay’s recommendation and check out the Gaslamp District in downtown San Diego. We parked, walked along until we found Ghirardelli’s chocolate shop. They gave us a sample chocolate (eggnog, so good) at the door. We ordered the Domino, a chocolate sundae with banana slices. The chocolate sauce was the best part. It was made of pure melted chocolate. Yummy!!! The smell of Ghirardelli’s was intoxicating.
Once we left there, we finished walking along the Gaslamp District. There were lots of street performers. One guy in particular was extra bizarre. He was covered in silver paint, doing a strange dance to techno music. All of the bars and restaurants were crowded, but most of the shops were closed.
We woke up bright and early Monday morning to go to the San Diego Wild Animal Park. We had to drive about 30 miles north, to Escondido. We were very excited to go there, especially because of Lane’s love of animals. We used a coupon and got the Best Value tickets, which included the Journey into Africa safari tour. The park was huge! We basically walked the entire thing. We saw so many animals.
The first thing we did, after buying sunblock, was check out some meerkats. We then headed toward the gorillas. As one gorilla went up to another, a nearby little girl said, “It’s whispering secrets in its ear!” It was cute. Next we watched an animal show which featured several types of birds and a smart red river hog that was obeying commands like a dog.
The next animal we saw was a gibbon (a type of monkey) that was very vocal.
We went on the safari tour which took us to a huge section of the park that you can’t walk to. We saw several types of gazelle and antelope, giraffes, three different types of rhinos, zebras, and many other animals.
ROOOOAAAAARRR!!! Sleeping lions… The next animals we saw were a male and two female lions who were basking in the midday sun. They had just separated the adults from the babies, so we didn’t get to see the babies. Bummer. The male was scoping his kingdom from atop an old range rover.
After a really long hike, we finally arrived at the elephants, both Asiatic and African. The baby african elephant was so cute. It was playing with everything in its path as it followed its mother around.
We scarfed down lunch while we watched some marmosets (more monkeys) play.
Another really long hike… We made our way to see some condors. On the way we saw porcupines, prairie dogs, and an owl. We looped around to see a sleeping tiger.
We then visited an aviary called the Hidden Jungle. Lane got a blue parrot to dance. On our way out we walked through a building that contained reptiles, amphibians, and arachnids. Lane loved the poison arrow frogs; they had three different kinds! Next we bought some nectar for the rainbow lorikeets in Lorikeet Landing. As soon as we entered, we were bombarded by them! They were on our heads, on our arms, everywhere.
We were getting hot and tired, so we decided to take a sitting break and check out the bird show. It was awesome! Lane’s favorite was the giant secretary bird and its “leg killing” action. Jason’s favorite was the juvenile condor that swooped down over the audience with an incredible wing span of 11 feet. We saw a talking african grey parrot, named Casema, and some hawks. Oh and there were so many vultures flying overhead that weren’t actually part of the show but added to the atmosphere.
We finished up by seeing some dik-diks and ineracting with some gazelle and antelope in the Petting Kraal. Oh did we mention there were birds of all shapes and sizes everywhere?
After a long, hot, fabulous day we would recommend the Wild Animal Park to anyone visiting San Diego. It was really worth while and fun!
Tuesday, we moved to a new hotel, the Dana Inn. It was located on Mission Bay. There were the cutest little black ducks nearby. Lane checked out the views while Jason attended a business meeting. We went to dinner that night with Jason’s company.
After a very long day of business meetings on Wednesday, we flew home to our precious cat, Zoey.
The trip was awesome and relaxing! We had so much fun. We definitely want to visit San Diego again. We still need to go to San Diego Zoo and Sea World.
Aug 7th
I’ve been dating this great girl for the past few months. Her name is Lane. Our first date was on April 4, 2008. We instantly fell madly in love with each other. I’ve never felt for anyone like the way I feel about her. She’s amazing! I can’t stand to be away from her for even a moment. We started talking about marriage, which I’ve never talked about with anyone in my life. I just knew I wanted to spend forever with her. We did tons of ring shopping and we finally found and purchased one that she loves. It’s a 3/4 ct. Princess Cut solitaire for the engagement ring, with a 1/4 ct. Diamond guard for the wedding that goes over the ring and surrounds the main diamond. It’s beautiful!
After purchasing the ring I wanted to propose to her on our 3 month anniversary, which happened to fall on the 4th of July. The only problem was that the ring was getting sized and wasn’t going to be ready by then. Well, I didn’t want to wait to get it. So on the 4th of July, as we were watching some fireworks together laying on some grass at a park in West Jordan, I took off her Celtic Love Knot promise ring I had bought her and held it during the fireworks show. She asked where her ring was a couple of times, but I just brushed her off, saying “It’s safe with me.” I was hoping she would just forget about it. Once the fireworks finale started, while holding her, I whispered in her ear “Lane, will you marry me?”, then slipped her promise ring on her finger. She was speechless for a moment, then blurted out “YES!” After the fireworks were over, she couldn’t stop laughing hysterically! It was the craziest thing I’ve ever seen! She was so happy, as was I.
I finally got her real engagement ring back from the jeweler the next week. I wanted to surprise her with it, so that day I brought her some white lilies, her favorite flowers. I wanted her to think that the ring still wasn’t ready, and the flowers were to say “too bad.” She had been wanting to take me to a place called Gardner Village. So that evening we went there. I brought the ring along in my pocket. We strolled around the place, going in and out of different shops. After a few hours, just as we were ready to leave, I mentioned to her that I would like to go find a place to just sit for a little while. We found a bench near a stream with geese. We sat down and talked for a moment, then I brought the ring out of my pocket, got down on one knee and asked her again to marry me. She was completely surprised and, once again, speechless. This time I actually had to ask her if her answer was still yes, since she wasn’t responding. She finally said “Yes, yes!”
Anyway, I love Lane so very much and know that she makes me the happiest man alive!